Sunday, July 6, 2014

Revelations at a Wash & Braii

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            Today was the third day of program. The early morning of waking up at 7:00am, eating a breakfast of a bowl of corn flakes and toast before hitting the road by 8:00am and getting there before any of the students. Debogo lead us in worship again and it was crazy to see so many kids stand up and do praise and worship before starting school like it was a normal day. Singing songs in Sepedi and Zulu as well as English has been quite an interesting experience. I am still looking forward to an opportunity to get one of my friends on the worship team like Kakecho, Debogo or Unami to ranslate the African songs into English just so I can know what I am saying. So far I’ve figured out from the songs that Jeso is Jesus and hohle is holy, but that’s pretty much it. There are no English cognates for words like kadifumafa.

            My class combined with the roosters, who are starting at the same level and are all in the same grade as the ducks.  If you want an idea of what kind of math the kids are learning, they are starting at addition with carrying. Yes, that stuff you did in second grade, that’s what these 7th and 8th graders are doing now. The problem is not that they have never seen this information before but their foundations for math are shaky, they get tripped up in geometry because there are holes in their multiplication, they can’t find the volume of a shape inside of another shape because they didn’t solidify how to divide. If you have a faint, heart this is the part of the project that can get you, the heart breaking reality of kids in recently post Apartheid school system is that many of them are getting left behind.

            Now I was up to teach English, yes I know that this sounds weird. I am sure that if you have an English background and you are reading this blog you are thinking, “Oh no I have read this guys blog and he doesn’t need to be teaching” But once again the sad truth is the level we are starting at with this kids is basic reading comprehension.

            Excuse me for a moment as I am going to get on a soapbox for my friends that are teachers. In the US right now the environment is so hostile for religion in schools that friends that I have that are Christian teachers seemingly have to hide their beliefs to keep their jobs. Teachers that have to just put on a Christian radio station as they grade paper in between classes praying someone will initiate a conversation, briefly use the Old Testament to reference the writing style of Gilgamesh and start Bible studies at their houses for their students that they are never allowed to mention and have to rely on word of mouth to grow. To those people friends, I have an opportunity for you: I taught a reading comprehension lesson today using the Parable of the Feeding of the 5,000. Just think about that and let it sink in. If I want to share the Gospel with my students after classes, I can and I sincerely hope that I get that opportunity.

            After another simple lunch provided by the program and it was time for the photo workshop. I had been searching for something to wow the kids an really grab their attention. Thanks to seeing a little bit of video that Eric Heistand had taken out on the quad that day, I saw a great opportunity. At App State, taking photo’s of more fare skinned friends while studying in bright sun can be tricky, especially if their notebook paper is adding ever more light to their faces that I’m trying to keep in gamut. But with my dark skinned students, the paper was a perfect impromptu reflector. When I walked them out and had one student model I explained the benefits of bouncing light and how it could be controlled. When I held that paper up and the sun reflected onto that girls face I saw jaws drop and audibly heard that class get engaged. They portraits that they took thereafter were exciting because they weren’t just excited to use a camera but they were controlling their environment to get the shots they wanted, on the second day. Not to too shabby. When our class ended I no doubt let a few tears fall to the floor having seen the class turn on a dime.

            After school it was time for a little South African and American co-teacher bonding. This came in the form of soccer, which is the official name of the sport in SA for all my international soccer friends screaming, “It’s called football!” Not much need for me to mention how this went, as the Americans were soon off the field and the SA’n teachers were playing the SA’n students. That’s when I got a phone call.

            The phone call was from Eric and it basically went something like this, “Hey buddy want to go on a spur of the moment adventure to a privately owned mountain that will give you a view of Mamelodi with my SA’n friend Malusi that you’ll never get to step foot on otherwise?”

            Needless to say, I was shortly being reintroduced to Malusi and following him to said mountain. The mountain was beautiful and the pink of the sunset in the sky might have been the most intense that I have ever seen. I remember being fascinated by the textures of bright green lichen on the loose red rocks that cover the mountaintop.

            As if this was not enough Eric was going to be treating us to dinner at a restraint that would probably be the most memorable meal of my life up to this point. As we drove in Mamelodi east after dark, we got odd looks from the people that we passed. Sadly, it is a fair assumption that when one sees white guys in the township after dark they are there to either pick up prostitutes or sell drugs. This is why I say we could not have walked into the restaurant we did by ourselves. With a well-known and respected member of Mamelodi, we were fine. We pulled up to a small storefront with only roadside parking on the dusty dirt road available. There was a hand-painted sign out front that said, “Wash & Braai” Outside there was a circle of men standing around a dimly lit brick grill pit drinking and grilling meat. Their voices were low and likely questioning about the presence of the two white guys who were walking up to wash their hands in the bowl of sudsy water. This was the wash. We walked inside to a restaurant composed of two tables, a fridge full of 1.5 liter sodas, and a man standing behind a counter with two choices of meat either sausage or beef. As we selected a large pile of meat I just took in every little detail of this place knowing I was getting a very special opportunity to be in. We talked about The Mamelodi Initiative over a large bottle of Fanta. When the meat came it was piled high and steaming. Then came the six massive mounds of pap, the SA’ns version of grits made from corn meal but unlike grits has a texture, which to me makes it much more edible. Two plates were served with sweet chili and mild dipping sauces. Oh and did I mention, you don’t use any silverware?
So as I sat chewing a large piece of freshly seasoned and grilled beef that I had covered in sweet chili sauce, I stared at the texture of the concrete wall, looked at the cars pass on the street, looked at the people I was eating with and had a moment. I had a moment of just asking how in the world I had ended up here and how this could possibly be my life.  I asked how I could be so fortunate. I took mental pictures that will last a lifetime, as I am sure others did of me. I smirked thinking of all the bad people must have thought we were up to, when all we were doing was making plans for the future of a ministry.

            On the way home Eric and I stopped at a McDonalds and talked over coffee. I haven’t introduced Eric to the degree he needs to be on this blog yet. He has been here since the first few days, sleeping in the same room as Akeem, Sam and I. Having him here makes SA feel more like home. We caught up for a long time at McDonalds, discussing things that were hard and things that offered hope. On the way home I thought about the ways that I’ve responded to people on this project when they ask about Eric and I’s relationship. I’ve said that he’s been like a father to me, I’ve said I don’t know if I would still be walking with Christ without him, I’ve said that things we have collaborated on God has used to direct me onto the path with media that I am on now and even though I have said all of that I don’t know how it could be enough to describe the impact having him in my life has had.

Please pray that:

Our kids would believe in themselves.
That they would strive to be different than the status quo in their community.

God bless and all the best,

Dylan Rollins











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